“Finger his hole and enjoy the orgasm show!” may be the best way to finish a TikTok video, Dr. Tara announces this to end her TikTok on the Male G-Spot. The absolutely hilarious and nonchalant approach Dr. Tara has to making sex education videos is really working, this is shown in how her channels have grown insanely over the last year.
She helps her audience with information and tips on sex in a way that takes away the embarrassment from the conversations, this new approach to sex education is becoming extremely popular.
Talking openly and honestly about sex is really tough, especially with how stigmatized it's been made. Dr. Tara is a sex and relationship coach who has broken down the walls of embarrassment and insecurity that surround the topic of sex. She uses a very funny and empathetic approach to discussing sex, that is really helping a lot of people.
How is Dr. Tara a relationship expert?
Dr. Tara is a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University, she received her tenure at the age of 33. She really is absolutely amazing! Dr. Tara is also a sex and relationship coach, and it doesn't stop there as she also is the host of the Luvbites by Dr. Tara Podcast, and is an award- winning researcher. It's no wonder her social media following has grown from just a few thousand to 2 million in a few years.
For most people talking about sex can be really difficult so when a relationship expert is talking about sex in such an open and comedic way it makes it feel a lot easier to do and encourages people to be more honest and discuss their sex lives in a healthy way.
How Dr. Tara created Luvbites
Dr. Tara was born and raised in Bangkok Thailand, as a young and sexually curious teen she had many questions and concerns that were never answered as she was living in a very conservative country where talking about sex is shameful and very taboo. Dr. Tara now has an incredibly popular relationship coaching business in Los Angeles as well as a thriving podcast! She is a textbook author and a succesful advisor for relationship apps... including Couply! Dr. Tara is Couply's Sex Expert.
Dr. Tara’s social media community is constantly growing, her TikTok videos and instagram posts have a massive reach, helping answer questions people have as well as improving relationships with her tips and facts. Dr. Tara gave a TEDx Talk in 2021 called ‘Become Sexually Powerful’ where she discussed her 5,000 participant study that looked into predictors of sexual satisfaction, as well as discussing her journey from an immigrant to a very confident sexpert. This was the start of her expanding her audience from just her classrooms to the world.
Dr. Tara aimed to create a business that encourages sexual intelligence and helps people feel more comfortable with their sexuality. She expanded her business because of her students as they continued to encourage her to make TikToks and to start a podcast, her students loved the way she taught them and knew she would be an absolute hit with the Gen Zs.
Where you can watch Dr. Tara on TV
Dr. Tara has made the move from the classroom to Tiktok and now to TV. She's been featured on a ton of news as an expert and now has a bunch of exciting TV developments coming soon.
Dr. Tara is the newest dating agent and resident Sexpert on the UK's hit reality TV show "Celebs Go Dating." So you can watch her on E4 dishing out expert love and sex tips to six UK celebrities looking to find love.
How Dr. Tara improves a couples sex life
Dr. Tara has a podcast on Spotify and iTunes where she posts episodes weekly that are full of tips and guidance to explore your sexuality and help on how to develop habits for long term sexual wellness. She provides us with free content on TikTok where we can watch her videos with help and information on sex, and she provides her podcast where we can listen to episodes weekly for new guidance to improve our sex lives.
Dr Tara’s recommendations for sex games, sex quizzes and couples games.
“I'm so wet and horny from his communication skills!” Dr. Tara exclaims in her TikTok suggesting couples try using the Couply App to improve their communication and relationship! Dr. Tara is a Couply Expert and creator, who creates sex education and relationship information content. Dr. Tara recommends sex games, sex quizzes and couples games as fun ways to strengthen your relationship, she has a blog on her Luvbites website where she posts her tips and info on sex and relationships. An article she wrote explores sexting ideas, a dating game to spice up your sex life. The blog gives sexting ideas to try as a dating game to improve your relationship and sexual connection.
Sex games and quizzes are fun and easy ways to improve your relationship, we all want to connect with our partners while having fun. Working on your relationship shouldn’t be boring and seem like too much work, it's worth it and can be done in such fun ways. Try the Couply app quizzes and games with your partner, try out our Dirty Truth or Dare, Dirty Never Have I Ever and Dirty Would You Rather Questions!
Points that Dr. Tara’s Tiktoks answer
Should you share nudes?
“Im sending Jason a picture of my nipples, sexting is a great way to add the fore fore play to your life!” Dr. Tara says it's a great way to flirt in her TikTok on sexting. Sending nudes can be scary so stick to sexting without pictures if you don't feel comfortable with nudes. Sexting with your partner is a sure way to keep the spark alive in the bedroom, and sexting without nudes is extremely fun too. If you want to send nudes and trust your partner enough to do so then try taking some steamy pics or even videos to send and turn them on.
Watching Porn
“Jason and I masterbate and watch porn together” Dr. Tara says in her TikTok explaining that watching porn together is a great spicy foreplay. Watching porn in your relationship can be a fun way to explore your sexual likes and dislikes together, there are many mixed opinions on whether watching porn alone while in a relationship is wrong but Dr. Tara recommends trying it together. Watching porn with your partner can be super sexy and a very hot foreplay to try.
Being confident when you’re naked
Being naked in front of someone can be intimidating for a lot of people, feeling confident in yourself and your body is part of learning to be more sexually confident. Being naked in front of people without the sexual part can be a great way to grow your confidence, try going to a nude beach alone or with friends. Dr. Tara says “Nude beaches are great places to meet other nude individuals and enjoy nature, its not about having sex!” Going to a nude beach can be a great way to gain confidence in your naked self and feel more comfortable around naked bodies without the sexual pressure there.
Porn star and Only Fans star tips for relationships from the Luvbites podcast:
Dr. Tara interviews so many influential and sex positive people, she interviews successful porn stars and only fan stars for tips and tricks to help us improve our sexuality confidence and improve our sex education. Dr. Tara’s Tiktok and podcast clips interviewing porn stars and only fans stars have great tips and tricks for people in relationships:
Get Tested: “Before my pants go down, we have to first of all show each other our test results” OF star Kazumi and Dr. Tara discusses how important getting tested is and how important knowing the person you’re sleeping with has been tested and knowing what those results are.
My Do’s and Don'ts: “We go over my do’s and dont’s” OF star Kazumi states in Luvbites podcast while discussing that always going over your do and don't list as well as theirs is what they do before sex. This can be used in relationships as knowing the things your partner would like and dislike as well as lines not to cross, this is a great way to minimize disappointment and avoid ruining sex.
Boundaries: “Someone that knows where they want to go and they know how to communicate their boundaries” OF star Kazumi says in the Luvbites podcast. Boundaries are extremely important in sex and really help to be set during a relationship, setting boundaries can take away the awkward and uncomfortable conversations by getting it all out there to begin with.
Love language: “Love that you got to learn their language” OF star Kazumi says during the Luvbites podcast explaining her favorite ways to foreplay and how important it is to know others love languages. Learning your partner's love language is so important to strengthen your relationship and to satisfy your partner.
Shared values:“I think shared values, shared interest, shared hobbies are an easy way to connect with people” Kazumi says during the Luvbites podcast, while Dr. Tara and Kazumi discuss the importance of shared values and interests in a relationship. Having shared values and interests is a great way to connect with someone and take your relationship to the next level.
Meet Dr. Tara's in person at her new Live Podcast Event: Afternoon Delight
Afternoon Delight is an in-person, live event taking place in LA on Febuary 10th 2024. Tickets are available here!
This experience is for those who want to expand their pleasure potential. It is a collaboration between some of the country's top sex and relationship experts and podcasters who know the tools to having and maintaining great connection and satisfying sex! A range of ticket options are available for in-person delights and at-home viewing (recording of the event).
Afternoon Delight is proudly sponsored by: Couply and our friends at Beducated.
The Afternoon Delight event features a group of world-renowned sexperts, including:
Dr. Tara: Tenured professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton award-winning researcher,sex and relationship coach, and the host of Luvbites by Dr. Tara podcast.
August McLaughlin: Award-winning journalist, author, certified sex educator, and host/producer of Girl Boner Radio
Nicoletta Heidegger, MA, MEd: Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Sexologist, and host of The Sluts and Scholars Podcast.
Dr. Nazanin Moali: Clinical Psychologist, sex and relationship expert and host of the Sexology Podcast.
We're so delighted to be working with amazing people like Dr. Tara in building Couply!
About the Author
Tegan Confield is a student at the University of Stirling studying Psychology. Tegan is doing work experience creating content for Couply, she loves writing articles and has a passion for relationship Psychology.
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