I know you want to have some sexy fun with your partner, and that's why I am here for you! If you just started a new relationship, you can play these dirty games to also break the ice and help both of you come out of your comfort zones! We all want our partners to be able to feel more secure and comfortable with us, and these things take time! So why not take a few of the classic games and give them a more spicy twist to them while also speeding up the process of both you and your partner to come out of your shells and embrace your naughty sides!
Show your passion, highlight your fun side! And make them want you even more.
Need more reasons to play dirty games? You shouldn’t but here you go.
Playing dirty games is a great way to bring you closer with your partner and spice up your relationship! During some of these dirty games, you might have to softly touch each other, lose a few clothes so these games will definitely bring the heat, make you feel hot all over, serve as some sort of roleplay for you. And well let’s face it, some of you might want to jump your partner right there and then. Very understandable, no judgements here.
It should also be obvious that some flirting will occur. Flirting is very important for all relationships if you’re wanting to keep the romance alive by adding an exciting and playful tone to your relationship. It serves as a more intimate communication that will help both of you feel more connected to each other, both emotionally and physically. It helps remind your partner that you’re still attracted to them and reassure them about your feelings towards them by expressing your desire for them.
A Couple More Benefits of Playing Dirty Games With Your Partner
Helps build your communication and get you to be more vulnerable with each other
Playing a dirty game with your partner will create some intimacy, a kind of vulnerability (the good kind) that will have you feeling more close and open with each other by the end of it. These dirty games will give you the chance of sharing some intimate and honest things about you which can then lead you to more deep conversations and understand and appreciate each other even more!
Builds Trust
As already mentioned, some of these dirty games will have you feeling vulnerable, either if it’s because you’re sharing some deep stuff, or just because you’ve removed a clothing or two (or everything). So by allowing yourselves to open up and be vulnerable, you’re giving your partner a reason to trust you even more and vice versa. Trust is extremely important for every relationship, so you might as well do everything and anything you can to build that. So why not try and play some dirty games along the way? It will add some fun in the mix of all these heavy and deep stuff and make it more light-hearted and comfortable for those of you who sometimes struggle to show any vulnerabilities to your partner.
Now let’s get into the good stuff one more time!
Dirty Games You Can Play as a Couple
Before you start playing any of these dirty games:
- Establish Boundaries: Have an open conversation with your partner about boundaries and comfort levels and make sure that both of you are willing and comfortable with whichever dirty games you decide you want to play.
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- Set The Mood: You’ll both feel more comfortable with a more relaxed atmosphere. You can do that by playing some soft or sexy music, dimming the lights, anything that you think will enhance the intimacy and adult nature of these games.
7 of the Classics, but With a Dirty Twist
Truth or Strip
We’re all aware of how to play Truth or Dare, personally I always found it a bit mundane. So replace the dares with stripping instead, and now we’re talking.
All you have to do is take turns to ask questions, and if one of you chooses not to answer a question, you have to take off one piece of clothing.
If you play your cards right, hopefully one, or both, of you will have had to remove everything by the end of it.
This game is the perfect chance to get to ask those questions that you want the answers to but you might be a bit scared to ask on a normal day, and hopefully you’ll either get your answers, or get to see your partner slowly strip for you. It’s a win-win situation no matter how you look at it.
Here are some questions that you can ask:
- What is a fantasy you want to act out during sex?
- If you could change one thing about our sex life, what would it be?
- If you could try something new in bed with me, what would it be?
Of course your questions don’t have to be all about sex, but these are some suggestions for you to get you both in the mood.
Dirty Twister
I’ve never really played Twister, but it looks fun and I know it’d be more fun if I was to play a dirty version of it.
There’s two ways to play this dirty game:
1: You can just play it as normal but while trying to keep your position during the came, attempt to share a kiss or a sensual touch with every round.
2: Make it even more naughty by writing steamy activities you want to do or try with your partner in every coloured circle, and when you ‘land’ on that circle, you engage in that activity. Simple, yet sexy.
Dirty Jenga
Ah Jenga, the game that has your heart pounding with every block removed and placed. Only with this version, your heart will flutter not just because of the placement of the blocks.
Both you and your partner write a few naughty tasks on the blocks and when one of you pulls on that block, before placing it back on top of the tower, you have to perform that task. You can make it as intimate as you want. And if you want the element of surprise, place the block while setting up the tower in the beginning in a way that you can’t read the task.
Dirty Scrabble
If you’re not good with Scrabble, this might not be the game for you. But also, don’t overthink it. When I play Scrabble, the answer is usually right in front of me.
While playing dirty Scrabble,j instead of regular words, try to play naughty words and phrases instead. Each time one of you creates a word or phrase, the other person has to perform that action. Get as creative as you can!
Sexopoly
A game that can make or break you. Isn’t it great when someone just can’t pay your rent and ends up in debt or bankrupt while you constantly have money rolling in? This is MY game.
This dirty game will involve intense flirting and (hopefully a lot) of sexual favors. You can either choose to pay a rent with money (and be boring) or by taking off a piece of clothing instead, while properties can be bought by completing a sexual activity (you can come up with certain activities for the corresponding tile you’re wanting to buy before the game begins). And if you’re looking to buy a property from the other player, then they have to decide on a sexual favor they want you to perform, and if they are satisfied with your performance, you get to buy the property.
In my opinion this game is a must. Everything and anything goes if you ask me.
The Kissing Game
A dirty version of the drinking game. While you’re all cuddled up on the couch or the bed watching a show or a movie, pick a common word and whenever you hear that word, kiss. It sounds simple but kissing is very intimate. Who doesn’t want a make-out session in the middle of a movie with their boo. Plus, kissing usually ends up leading to more physical intimacy. A little caress on the cheek, a soft touch here and there and next thing you know, you’re getting down and dirty while the TV is playing Princess Diaries.
Strip Poker/ Blackjack
Your normal poker or blackjack, but with every hand you win, your partner has to either strip or you can ask them to perform a sexual favor for you. There’s nothing else to this. You can literally choose any card game, it doesn’t just have to be poker or blackjack, not everyone is familiar with these games so why confuse yourself. The main take is, if you win, they have to pay up (not with money obviously).
5 More Dirty Games for You
Dirty Dice
You can Assign different sexy actions to the different numbers of a dice, or use a pair of dice, with one dice having the actions (e.g. kiss) and the other dice the place for the action to be performed on (e.g. neck). Then roll the dice and whatever you land on, your partner has to perform on you.
Body Shot Roulette
All drinking games between couples end up in things getting more heated. It starts with a challenge on who can keep their hands to themselves the longest and ends with both of them caving in.
All there is to this is; choose your preference of shots and set them up on each other’s bodies. Then take turns spinning a roulette wheel and take a body shot on each other depending on where the roulette lands. Hopefully after a few turns, the taking shots from one’s body part will turn into a little kiss or a little lick. So if that was me, I’d save the good shots for last.
Ticking Bomb
This game is mostly built around having you focus on foreplay. You need to decide between a 20-30 minute ‘interval’. Before the time runs out, you can only engage in foreplay and foreplay only. No sex allowed. Just tease, touch, caress, fondle, kiss, lick, whatever have you. Just focus on the build-up, on how you make each other feel, let the need, desire and lust build up until the time runs out. Then enjoy the release of all the teasing and sexual frustration.
Dirty Cards
If you Google dirty cards you will find a huge variety of sexy card games for couples. These cards will have you do all sorts of things, from kissing your partner on the cheek one second to giving them head the next. Just live in the moment, go have the fun you deserve and desire.
Role Playing
Remember that one episode in Friends where Ross admits to having a sex fantasy about Princess Leia in the gold bikini? Or the one where Ross dresses up as a navy guy because Rachel liked the costume? No? If you haven’t watched Friends, then what are you doing with your life?
Anyway, the point is, everyone loves role playing. This is the game you need to re-enact your fantasies and your kinks. Come up with scenarios and characters, become an actor for a day if you will. This gives you the opportunity to break out of your normal sex routine, spice it up and create more intimate memories with each other. Go ask your partner about their fantasies, and let them know about yours!
If these games don’t speak to you, that’s alright. I might be a bit hurt but I understand. There’s just something wrong with you (joke). There are more dirty ways and dirty games you can find to play with your partner. These are just the ones I found worth mentioning the most.
You can always combine a few of the ones mentioned above! That’s what I ended up doing with my boyfriend instead.
For example, we decided to play Truth or Strip Jenga. All you need is to write a few questions and a few naughty activities to perform, on the blocks. If you refuse to answer a question or perform an activity, strip instead. If your partner is also slightly awkward with answering the deep hard questions and participating in deep conversations in general, this is your chance. I feel like this way is easier for them to open up as well since you’re playing a game so the mood won’t be as serious and heavy. It’ll be more relaxed so for all you know, they might feel more comfortable that way. Especially if you’ve both been stripping because of the game, then your partner won’t feel as alone or exposed.
Just make sure you let your creativity run wild! Any game can be turned dirty if you put your mind to it. And who knows, this newfound way of playing games might even become a regular occurrence for you and your partner. Maybe you can play a different every other weekend, or play one that you’ve already tried. The main takeaway is that, not only will you have fun (and probably sex), but you will also feel closer to each other, maybe even fall in love even more.
Just do it (this isn’t sponsored by Nike).
About the Author
Eirini Tsipou is a Content Coordinator for the Couply app. Couply was created to help couples improve their relationships. Couply has over 300,000 words of relationship quizzes, questions, couples games and date ideas and helps over 400,000 people.
Eirini Tsipou watches crime documentaries for fun, and is currently studying Bachelor’s Psychology at the University of Stirling.
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