Being in a relationship is one thing, but keeping the spark between you and your partner alive is one challenge you will need to constantly face. You can’t make it work for the long haul if you aren’t bold enough to make changes that can help you stimulate your partner’s desire for intimacy. It takes a lot of work to keep yourselves sexually attractive, even more so if you’re both working demanding jobs.
That doesn’t mean you should call it quits; it only means you will have to undergo certain transformations that can help maintain sexual attraction between you. After all, it’s passion that holds you close and you will need to invest time and energy in making sure you remain just as passionate towards each other as the day you started your relationship. All it takes is knowing how to maintain sexual attraction which is something you can accomplish through the following tips:
1. Know what keeps you passionate
For the most part, you will have to take a breather and figure out what has dramatically changed in your dynamic. If you’ve been together for more than five years then there might be a certain point in your relationship when the things that brought you together have lost their appeal. It would help if you could take a step back and find what it was you stopped doing that contributed to your relationship’s slowdown.
In most cases, it’s for the best to leave it in the past and explore new horizons as a couple. If visiting your favorite spots around the neighborhood has lost its appeal, then it might be time to consider a change of environment. You can settle down in a different city and start a new chapter there.
2. Get into meaningful and passionate conversations
Intimacy isn’t achieved through routine. Initiating small talk during the day isn’t the best way to signal a sense of sexual attraction towards your partner. For sure, your partner would appreciate it more if you had more opportunities to talk about deeper topics. Go beyond words of admiration and lay down your plans for the future.
You can then spice it up a little by mixing a bit of seduction in your everyday conversations. Talk about your kinks and what you’re going to do to each other once you come back home. Describe your fantasies and preferences. Be daring enough to talk about these topics so you can break free from small talk.
3. Invest in physical attraction
Anyone can tell you that you don’t have to change yourself just to make your partner fall in love with you even more. In most cases undergoing radical transformations can help liberate you from monotony and, in a way, tell your partner that you’re willing to try out new things in your relationship.
Apart from changing your hairstyle and fashion sense, you can opt for safe modifications to your body. You may want to consider reaching out to an orthodontist near you to correct misaligned teeth or contacting a plastic surgeon who can do breast augmentation. Physical changes like these can add more spice to your intimate nights.
4. Put more time and effort into self-care
Sexual attraction hinges on your mental and physical condition. If you let the anxieties of work get in the way of intimacy, it will only make you less attractive to your partner. Not only will you lose precious time intended for intimate moments, but stress could also affect your performance in bed and diminish your physical appearance.
It matters to invest in self-care. Start by eating right and abandoning bad coping mechanisms for dealing with stress. It also matters to be organized and set barriers between work and life. This allows you to save time and keeps you physically and mentally conditioned in a way that stimulates your partner’s desire for sex.
Endnote
Part of being in a strong relationship is making sure you and your partner remain sexually attracted to each other, so keep the flame alive by following these simple tips.
