Who says virtual dates have to be boring? If you can’t be in the same room, why not turn up the heat on-screen? 😉 A carefully chosen movie can do more than just entertain—it can create tension, spark conversation, and set the mood for whatever comes next.

Erotic films aren’t just about explicit scenes. The best ones are slow burns, filled with lingering glances, charged silences, and sensual storytelling that makes the anticipation even hotter. When you watch them together, even from miles apart, you share an experience that pulls you closer—emotionally and physically.

So grab your favorite drink, dim the lights, and pick a movie that will leave you both craving more. Below is a handpicked list of the sexiest films to watch together, plus ideas to turn up the heat even more.

1. Eyes Wide Shut (1999) – Mysterious & Hypnotic

A psychological thriller wrapped in erotic intrigue, Eyes Wide Shut follows a married couple, played by Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman, as they navigate hidden desires and secret fantasies. What starts as a confession of temptation spirals into a surreal journey through an underground world of masked orgies, dangerous seductions, and unspoken yearnings.

Director Stanley Kubrick masterfully blends mystery and sensuality, making every slow step, lingering stare, and whispered confession feel intoxicating. The tension builds gradually, keeping you on the edge—much like a long, drawn-out tease.

💡 Make It Hotter: When the famous masked ball scene plays, pause the movie and let your imagination run wild. Whisper in each other’s ears (or send a voice note) describing what you’d do if you were in that room. Who would you be? A watcher? A participant? Maybe someone in disguise, slipping away for a forbidden rendezvous?

2. In the Mood for Love (2000) – Subtle but Simmering

Unlike more overtly sexual films, In the Mood for Love is all about tension—the kind that makes every stolen glance and near-touch feel electric. Set in 1960s Hong Kong, the film follows two neighbors who slowly develop feelings for each other after suspecting their spouses are having an affair. They resist temptation, but their desire is undeniable.

Director Wong Kar-wai uses slow-motion shots, rich colors, and a haunting score to create an atmosphere dripping with longing. The result? A film that proves restraint can be just as arousing as indulgence.

💡 Make It Hotter: Turn the tension into a game. Throughout the movie, take turns describing something you want to do to each other—but with one rule: you can’t act on it until after the credits roll. The longer the buildup, the sweeter the release.

3. Call Me By Your Name (2017) – Intimate & Emotional

Few films capture the raw intensity of first love and desire as beautifully as Call Me By Your Name. Set against the sun-drenched backdrop of an Italian summer, the film follows 17-year-old Elio as he falls for Oliver, an older graduate student staying at his family’s villa. The film is filled with stolen glances, tender touches, and moments of quiet, aching passion that make it one of the most sensual love stories ever told.

There’s no rush in Call Me By Your Name—it takes its time, much like a slow-burning romance. The tension builds with every lingering hand on a shoulder, every whispered word, until desire spills over in ways that feel both inevitable and unforgettable.

💡 Make It Hotter: This movie is all about poetic longing, so why not bring that into your own date night? Take turns sending each other love notes—whether playful, seductive, or heartfelt. Read them out loud to each other in the softest, most intimate voice possible. Let your words become the caresses you can’t yet give.

4. Unfaithful (2002) – Passionate & Dangerous

Unfaithful isn’t just about an affair—it’s about the kind of desire that consumes you whole. Diane Lane plays a suburban wife who stumbles into a torrid, obsessive affair with a charming stranger. Every scene between them is charged with raw, unfiltered passion—from their first stolen kiss to their reckless encounters in public places.

Unlike many erotic films, Unfaithful feels real. The characters don’t just lust after each other; they crave, ache, and surrender to their needs. It’s messy, intense, and irresistibly hot.

💡 Make It Hotter: Borrow a little danger from the movie—send each other a risky text while watching, something neither of you would normally say. Bonus challenge? Try watching in a place where you shouldn’t be getting turned on… and see how long you can resist.

5. Secretary (2002) – Playful & Kinky

If you’re looking for something unconventional, Secretary is a must-watch. This darkly funny and deeply erotic film explores the power play between a shy young woman (Maggie Gyllenhaal) and her demanding, dominant boss (James Spader). Their relationship starts with strict rules and structured discipline, but slowly transforms into something tender, intimate, and surprisingly romantic.

Unlike the more mainstream Fifty Shades of Grey, Secretary is more psychological, more playful, and—let’s be honest—sexier. The tension between control and surrender is what makes it so compelling, and watching their relationship evolve is just as arousing as the steamy moments themselves.

💡 Make It Hotter: Take a page from the movie and introduce a little playful dominance into your virtual date. Give each other lighthearted but seductive “commands” throughout the film—maybe you have to watch the next scene with your hands behind your back, or describe exactly what you’d do if you were in that office instead.

6. Nine 1/2 Weeks (1986) – Seduction & Sensory Play

This classic erotic drama is all about seduction through sensation. Nine 1/2 Weeks follows the intense, intoxicating affair between a New York art dealer and a mysterious Wall Street broker. Their relationship is built on blindfolds, ice cubes, and power play, creating an atmosphere of complete surrender to pleasure. Every scene is dripping with desire, making it one of the most unforgettable erotic films of all time.

💡 Make It Hotter: Since this film is all about sensory exploration, why not play a game of imagination? Each of you picks an everyday object—anything from a silk scarf to a spoonful of honey—and describes in detail how you’d use it in a sensual scene. Make it as teasing or explicit as you dare.

7. The Handmaiden (2016) – Twisted & Sultry

A masterpiece of seduction, deception, and raw passion, The Handmaiden is a beautifully shot erotic thriller that tells the story of two women entangled in a web of lies, manipulation, and forbidden love. The chemistry between the leads is electric, and the intimate scenes are some of the most breathtakingly sensual ever put on screen.

What sets The Handmaiden apart is its slow build—the tension lingers in the stolen touches and lingering glances before finally igniting into full-blown passion. It’s the kind of film that keeps you on edge in the best possible way.

💡 Make It Hotter: Turn up the intensity by staging a seductive confession. Each of you must reveal something you’ve always wanted to try—whether it’s a fantasy, a hidden desire, or a secret you’ve never shared. The more vulnerable, the better.

8. Magic Mike XXL (2015) – Stripping & Grinding

Unlike the first Magic Mike, which had a darker, more dramatic edge, Magic Mike XXL is all about fun, flirtation, and over-the-top sexy dance moves. With barely any plot to get in the way, the film delivers scene after scene of shirtless, oiled-up men grinding to the beat. It’s playful, it’s steamy, and it’s perfect for setting the mood.

But don’t be fooled—this isn’t just about eye candy. The movie is filled with moments of teasing, confidence, and seduction that can inspire some virtual fun of your own.

💡 Make It Hotter: Since the film is all about movement, why not bring that energy into your own date night? Have a private dance-off, or take turns narrating exactly what you’d do if you were watching the performance up close and personal. Want to take it a step further? Set a challenge—whoever loses has to follow a sexy command.

9. Cruel Intentions (1999) – Scandalous & Seductive

Scheming, seduction, and steamy mind games make Cruel Intentions one of the most unforgettable erotic thrillers of the late ’90s. With its aristocratic setting, morally twisted characters, and forbidden relationships, the film oozes sex appeal. From the infamous kiss between Kathryn and Cecile to the dangerous power plays between Sebastian and Annette, the tension is intoxicating.

The best part? The characters aren’t just playing with each other—they’re playing with the audience, making every flirtation feel like a personal challenge.

💡 Make It Hotter: Get into the spirit of the movie by playing a little game of your own. Throughout the film, send each other flirty dares based on the characters' behavior—like whispering a secret, describing a fantasy, or teasing each other with what you'd do if you were in the same room. Whoever completes the most dares gets to pick the next one.

10. Love (2015) – Bold & Unfiltered

Gaspar Noé’s Love doesn’t just push boundaries—it shatters them. A deeply intimate and visually stunning exploration of passion, the film follows a couple’s intense and often messy love affair, featuring raw, unsimulated sex scenes that blur the line between art and erotica. More than just explicit, Love captures the highs and lows of lust, longing, and deep emotional connection.

This is the kind of movie that demands vulnerability—both in its characters and its viewers. It’s a full sensory experience, pulling you into the eroticism of every touch, whisper, and stolen moment.

💡 Make It Hotter: Take inspiration from the film’s unfiltered intimacy by letting go of inhibitions. Instead of just watching, share exactly what turns you on in the moment. No filters, no second-guessing—just pure, honest desire.

11. Lust, Caution (2007) – Dangerous & Addictive

Directed by Ang Lee, Lust, Caution is an intoxicating blend of espionage, psychological warfare, and deep, all-consuming passion. Set in World War II-era Shanghai, the film follows a young woman who infiltrates the life of a powerful man—only to fall into a dangerous affair that threatens to consume them both.

The erotic scenes in this film are legendary—shot with a level of intensity and realism that makes every moment feel almost too intimate to watch. It’s about power, surrender, and the kind of desire that becomes an obsession.

💡 Make It Hotter: Channel the film’s intensity by describing what you’d whisper in your lover’s ear if you were the one seducing them. Keep it slow, deliberate, and just teasing enough to leave them wanting more.

Watching an erotic movie together isn’t just about what’s on the screen—it’s about the tension, the teasing, and the connection you build along the way. Whether you’re whispering naughty thoughts between scenes, challenging each other to steamy dares, or letting the film inspire your own fantasies, every moment is an opportunity to deepen your intimacy.

So dim the lights, press play, and let the sparks fly. And who knows? By the time the credits roll, you might be too distracted to notice. 😉🎬🔥

Ready to make your next movie night unforgettable? Which film are you watching first? 😏